The present matters most

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Sorry if the last post was glitched for you. I don’t really know what happened there but I fixed it now.



For the last months, years perhaps, I’ve been thinking that my life is pretty boring. That everything I do is on repeat and that I’ve got to do all those things to get where I want to be yada yada yada. I might have even had depersonalization… Maybe I still do a bit.

But today, I’ve noticed that my life actually is full of things that would make me, or.. My brain engaged. It is only that I’ve gotten used to doing those things on automatic, I didn’t even really need a brain to process the actions I had to do.

Maybe I was still doing my best even on automatic, but the problem was more that I am always so disconnected mentally, that my brain just gets bored and hangs on the past, hangs on things that ended months ago, and that’s REALLY annoying you got no idea. Maybe you do idk.

Anyway, the reason I’m saying this is because I’m pretty sure there will be people reading that also hang on the past a lot, even though you should realistically have moved on. What I’d advise you to do, at least that’s what I’m trying to do today and it’s working, is to engage in the present. Not trying to escape from the thoughts no no no no no, try being there doing things that keep your mind where you are, eventually I think you’ll just forget everything… Hopefully : )

I’m no professional, so if your situation is more complicated, maybe listening to someone who knows what they’re saying is better.



I like to believe there are two types of tasks that improve you in some way, like hobbies or just things that you have to do throughout the day. The tasks that you just got to do and are not time related, for me a good example is to write here. I'm not writing from hour A to hour B, I’m just writing till I finish it. And there are the tasks you do in a time period, for me, drawing is a good example, it matters HOW I do the action during that time to improve, not just doing it.

Maybe separating mentally what those tasks are helps, and look to put your mind on the game. It works for me, perhaps it does for you too : )



So yeah, that’s it for today. Really hope you enjoyed it and really hope it helped some people out.

Good luck out there! See you tomorrow.

If you want to talk one day, I’d love to meet you!


Imagine i'm in front of you talking about life really moving my hands and doing faces. That's basically how it looks like talking to me

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