Nothing ever lasts forever

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Yesterday night I had a realization that made everything in life so much simpler and easier to enjoy.

I believe I talked about something similar here before, but maybe how I thought about it yesterday made things better. That’s why I like writing here so much : )

I get to organize my thoughts in proper words and some people might really get inspired by it.


Basically my realization was that not every phase of your life needs to be incredible regarding how happy you’re. Everyone is only looking to be happy when they’re not content, as when you’re going through a good phase, you don’t even think about your feelings that much.

But here’s what I thought was interesting. Nothing lasts forever, that’s obvious, so the good phases won’t either. Maybe what makes them so special IS the fact that they won’t last forever. They’re limited, at least the feeling of the good phase, and after they’re done or you just get used to it, things feel like they go back to normal. 

Also these good phases seem to appear rather randomly. You meet someone new who’s really fun, a new place to live, a new friends group. It can also be a time of the year, like the summer when you don’t have class or work (normally).

The excitement of these new things or this time won’t last forever, that makes it more enjoyable I believe.


So. If these good phases of life come and go, and we’re mostly living during a “normal” phase, then we should make this normal phase at least good enough that we’re not miserable. Eventually something new super exciting will come into your life, it won’t last forever, nor the “normal” phase, nor the bad ones. 

I was going through grief recently and I think I've finally reached the accepting stage, that was a bad phase, things will most likely now go back to normal, and after a while something new super exciting will happen, that’s a good phase. 

Everything changes, good things happen, you’ll see.

Just live your life you know? Just keep going. Refuse to be miserable. Don’t worry so much.


That’s it for today! Hope to see your face again tomorrow!

See ya! : )
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