Living one last time

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It’s scary to think about doing something or seeing something/someone for the last time.

Ever thought that everyone around you will one day not be there anymore? Or that one day You won’t be around them anymore?

If you were eating something and you knew it was your last time eating it, it would feel pretty weird wouldn’t it?

I was talking to a friend a few days ago, we have known each other since we were kids, and I told her that even if we are going to be friends forever, which we definitely will, eventually one of us will have to carry on without the other.

It’s hard to imagine. I mean, we've been friends for so long it’s hard to picture a life without her.

Another example is my brother. I’ve known him my entire life (This sentence is literal for him to me), and one day… One day will be the last time I see him.

The idea alone is so uncanny I prefer to not even think about it.


We’re living in this time line with all those people with us, they exist, you got to meet a few, and soon, everyone who got to live during the time you were alive won’t be here anymore.

How crazy is that?

Furthermore (It’s not like me to use such words), there are plenty of people we’ve met in the past that we won’t ever see again. If you’re out of school, most of your colleges are probably out of your life for good. 

Months ago I was on a call with a friend, everything seemed normal, but little did I know, that was the last time I would be able to talk to her properly. We have never called since.

And even if she comes back, things won’t be the same.

(You know it’s not the same as it was…)


Ok ok. So what is this about? Am I just writing to make people depressed? 

No, of course not. I’m pretty sure you know where this is going.

We never know when it’s the last time for anything.

Knowing that makes it easier to appreciate things.

The only thing we KNOW it’s our last time, it’s living this life. We won’t get another one like this. Yeah I understand that it’s hard to comprehend that, as life is quite long and it’s not just a meal that you only eat once, but it’s true.

So if we tend to appreciate things more when doing them for the last time, then we should appreciate this life more, because the people around you, everything around you, it’s what you have, and it’s all limited to now.


So yeah, that’s it for today, a bit of a long one. I hope my words made sense to you : )

And I hope to see you again tomorrow!


Imagine i'm in front of you talking about life really moving my hands and doing faces. That's basically how it looks like talking to me

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