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Today is, I’d say, one of the most important days of my life.

Why is that? Because I’ve finally got to the mental stage I was looking for for years.

I won’t get really deep into that, but god does it feel weird.


And going through that made me figure out what I wanted to talk about today. 

If we are going through a bad moment, a bad phase in life, we need to know that to get out, you need to get yourself together. It ain’t easy work. It’s really uncomfortable. But you got to do something.

Yeah yeah yeah, you might have heard that before, the real question is mostly how do we get ourselves together, and I think I’ve figured that out : )


In my case, I kept this awful feeling of grief alive for what felt like ages even though it should have been gone months ago, I knew it was supposed to be gone. What kept it alive was me never stopping to actually feel it, because I was always working, and when I did allow myself to feel it, it always came back because of rumination. It’s only gone now, because I have finally decided to stop these useless thoughts from rumination. I had to DO something you know? Face the personal problem. Or else it wouldn’t stay away.

Ok ok ok, but how do you feel? This really depends on the person I think. I know it might sound corny and lame, but my way of actually feeling intense emotions is to lay down and hug pillows until I know the feeling is gone. Do whatever feels right to you!


And now that I’ve gone through this experience, everything is clearer now, and I won’t even allow myself to go through this again. If anything happens, I know how to get myself together : )


So yeah, that’s what I wanted to talk about today, hopefully it helps a few people out.

I mean I would have loved to have read something like this a while back.

See you tomorrow!
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