Don't regret your life

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What’s a life without regrets? 

Even if we’re satisfied with how things turned out, and say we would do everything all over again, I’m sure there are at least a few things in the past we would like to tweak a bit. Maybe say something differently, act in a different way, not do one tiny little thing.

Everyone regrets stuff. Regret is something that happens basically daily.

There are small regrets and big regrets… Ye… And REAL big regrets.


I believe a BIG regret would need to be something that entirely changed your life… Logically for the worst. How different (Better) life could have been if you acted this way, or said / didn’t say this thing. 

Currently speaking, I don’t regret anything awfully. Hopefully I never will. 

But surely someone here does. (Wish you the best btw)

The thing with regretting stuff is that now nothing can be changed. It’s like just struggling internally for the past. Obviously that doesn’t make it easier to swallow the pill I know. 

And I don't really have any way of dealing with it. I just tend to ask myself if the thoughts of the past are things I want to struggle with for the rest of my life, and the answer is always no. That makes things easier mentally I suppose.

With any regret, you’re going to live with it for the rest of your life, you’ll get used to it and eventually accept. You might be screaming internally now (IK how it goes), but you’ll get used to the feeling, I promise.


One of my regrets is not being really who I am during school time. That’s probably why it was so miserable. I don’t know if I could considering some things, but I wish I had been better.

There are plenty of other little things that I would have done or not done, but that really doesn’t matter (Yes I’m saying that so I don’t need to tell them here)


Either way, one thing people appear to regret a lot is not being more adventurous, not taking many risks, not living life that much. 

Obviously there is the chance of regretting taking the risk, as things might go south, so you can’t really escape it. Taking a big risk might be the biggest regret or the best decision of your life.

Playing safe is also something that leads to regret eventually. 

Maybe the best way to deal with all of this then would be to just accept that some things we will want to have done differently, and that’s ok, we can’t know how things will play out. 


So ye, that’s it for today : )

Not really sure where I was going with this, I just wanted to talk a bit about the topic.

Hope to see you tomorrow!


Imagine i'm in front of you talking about life really moving my hands and doing faces. That's basically how it looks like talking to me

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